Adobe Christian Church
I have always identified with the notion that we are all broken in some way. Looking back, there were times when I knew there was something wrong, something missing. It wasn't until I tried to fill the hole I had discovered in my soul that I discovered what my particular brokenness was. I was, and am, a broken vessel.
A vessel, for the purpose of this ongoing discussion, should be considered an object designed with a purpose. Something created with intention, with a specific objective in mind. Viewed with this perspective, we are all broken vessels. Imperfect, malfunctioning, not operating as we were designed.
We all have our struggles. We have all felt the sting of regret and shame when we are reminded of the wreckage our brokenness has caused. There is solace, however, in knowing we do not have to be defined by this.
Biblical history is full of examples of broken vessels being used to fulfill the purposes of God. Samson was misled by his own lusts until he no longer found himself in control of his life. David chased his desires and it led him to adultery and murder. Peter is the classic New Testament reminder of someone who can never get it right.
All of these men, and many more, were redeemed in their brokenness by their Creator and restored to greater heights than any of them could have imagined. The same redemption is available to us.
Not only is it available, but, it could be argued that God prefers a broken vessel to carry out His work. It has been shown throughout Scripture (Abraham, an idol maker; Rahab, a prostitute; Paul, the self proclaimed "worst of all sinners") that broken vessels are often chosen for the highest of callings, and quite often, to further the redemption and salvation of others.
Why would God choose the broken to fulfill his purposes? Why would He pick the damaged to lead? Why would the Creator of the universe decide that the best suited to heal the fallen would be ones who had fell so far themselves?
Because who better to understand how to heal brokenness, than someone who has been broken?
Questions: Have you been broken? How has God led you to healing? How has your brokenness allowed you to help heal others?
As we begin the new year, I am inclined to think about years past. The wins and losses, ups and downs, friends and foes. This year, it is the significance of the company we keep, and the consequences of the choices we make that stands out.
We are all familiar with the concept that the company we keep will, in large part, define our character and the way others see us. But do we really believe this applies to us? Or just to others? Don't we sometimes believe we're exempt from that? That the choices we make about the company we keep don't carry as much weight for us as they do for others?
The fact is, we are defined by the company we keep. One example is the story of Absalom and his struggle with identity as the son of King David and heir apparent to the throne of Israel.
We are introduced to the character of Absalom when he takes his sister into his home to recuperate after she is raped by her brother Amnon (2 Samuel 13:20). In his book, A Tale of Three Kings, Gene Edwards describes Absalom in this way:
Men felt secure just being with Absalom. They even longed to have time with him. Talking with him, they realized that they themselves were wiser than they'd realized. Such a revelation made them feel good. As he discussed problem after problem and solution after solution, men began to long for the day when this one would be their leader. He could right so many wrongs. He gave them a sense of hope." G. Edwards
However, Absalom allowed the praise of others and his own ambition lead him away from his family, and into the snares of underminers and zealots.
Absalom ultimately moved from brother and son, to conspirator and usurper of the throne.
The company we keep will ultimately define who we are. The community we are apart of will shape the people we become. This is not optional or possible. It is a fact.
However, don't allow this fact to drive you into an isolationist mind-set, one that seeks only it's own survival and not the well-being of others. For while it's true, the company we keep defines us, the righteousness that we are afforded by the Cross is not for us alone. It is for those who do not yet understand that the company they keep is separating them from true Life. We can remain in our community of Faith and still reach out to others. We can become the catalyst for change in their communities.
What if, as we are afforded Grace and the community of believers (Romans 5:8), we are to afford that same Grace and community to those who don't yet believe.
In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. Matthew 5:16
Questions: How does the company you keep influence you? How are you making yourself available to the people around you?